情书love范文第1篇
however, nobody has ever made out what the word “love” really connotes, not even the most famous people such as great politicians, saints and philosophers can clarify the meaning of “love”, neither can they deal with the various affairs concerning love. love is like a huge boundless net that shrouds us all in. we can neither break away from it nor escape from it. like it or not, we are always entangled in it. it is an invisible net without any form, that shrouds in different people from different angels; it is a merciless net that upsets us or even tortures us to death. it is also a supreme net which almost no human can surpass. even if they are heroes, emperors, wise men or saints, they can do nothing but show their helplessness in its face. those who can breathe through the holes of the net should be regarded beyond commonness and vulgarity. love can bring us temporary comfort and happiness, but mostly they bring about annoyance and sufferings. maybe this is the reason why many people have seen through the illusions of the mortal world. however it is not so easy to break away from this boundless, ever-existing and indifferent net of love.
love is varied and changeable, but roughly it can be divided into three categories: family love, fraternal love and amatory love. not like monkey king who jumped out of the rocks, we were all born after mothers pregnancy of about nine months, hence we have countless relatives without any choice: parents, grand-parents, and 海量资料分享
grand-parents-in-law, uncles and aunties, brothers and sisters, etc. and once looking at the genealogical tree, well see no end. family love is what everyone longs for, but the warmth and support from our beloved ones are what everyone yearns for the most. but how many of us are determined to contribute to our beloved one? and how many dont expect repayment and relaxed. conscience even if they have the desire and preparation to contribute to their beloved. the distance between relatives is different and so are their expectations. but since its very difficult to know how much we should expect, a lot of worries and distresses emerge.
parents always expect their children to show their filial obedience, or at least pay them frequent visits after they have got married. if the children fail to do this, they feel hurt and upset, and theyll even complain about their children, because they just cant understand why their children dont care about them after what they have done for the children for so many years to bring them up. nevertheless, ones experience determines his ideology. young children are naturally attached to their parents, but when they grow up, specially when they have made their own friends, and got married, what they need most is independence and freedom, and parents sometimes might become their burden. once there is generation gap, it becomes more difficult to communicate and this keeps them away from their parents. objectively speaking, they need more independence in order to achieve success. in the present society, what the children want to have most is the economic support from their parents, not their moral support or guidance. they would complain if your economic support is not up to their expectations. the love from uncles and aunties would naturally dwindle after they have had their own children. only the love from grand-parents and grand parents-in-law is pure and demands no repayment, and they are also too old to wait for any repayment. as for the distant relatives, their love depends on their needs, just as the old saying goes “the poor have no friends even if 海量资料分享
they live in downtown while the rich have distant relatives even if they live in deep mountains”. granny liu, a distant kinsfolk, in a dream of the red mansions , claims kinship with the wealthy jia family, thinking that she may benefit from it in some ways. liu might have run away without any traces if the jia family had been a poor one. another saying goes “close neighbors are better than distant relatives.” the most difficult is to manage the relatives when doing business together, just as what the tv series program liu laogen discloses. it is all right to stay poor together, but as soon as the business grows prosperous, the group will become estranged and even dissolve because of the unfair distribution. family love is like a maze which we shouldnt go too far into it, otherwise, well surely get lost. love is a bilateral matter and unilateral love can only lead you to nowhere in spite of your good intentions. family love is, sometimes, like an arranged marriage, leaving no choices to you. due to the different experiences and tastes, staying together temporarily can be entertaining, while living together for a long time can only be boring due to the lack of common interest and understanding. how can we communicate with each other without understanding? parents have the duty to support the children who are not yet economically independent, and children have the responsibility to provide for the elderly parents who are lack of economic abilities to support themselves. except these two kinds of duties which we must fulfill, other kinds of love become conventional formalities such as paying visit to the sick or the dead and giving presents to the newly-born etc..
情书love范文第2篇
2、Life is a journey, not the destination, but the scenery along the should be and the mood at the view.
人生就是一场旅行,不在乎目的地,在乎的应该是沿途的风景以及看风景的心情。
3、In love folly is always sweet.恋爱中,干傻事总是让人感到十分美妙。
4、The hard part isn’t making the decision. It’s living with it.
做出决定并不困难,困难的是接受决定。
5、Your happy passer-by all knows, my distressed there is no place hides.你的幸福路人皆知,我的狼狈无处遁形。
6、You may be out of my sight, but never out of my mind.
你也许已走出我的视线,但从未走出我的思念。
7、Love is not a maybe thing. You know when you love someone.爱不是什么可能、大概、也许,一旦爱上了,自己是十分清楚的。
8、In the end, it’s not the years in your life that count. It’s the life in your years.到头来,你活了多少岁不算什么,重要的是,你是如何度过这些岁月的。
9、When the whole world is about to rain, let’s make it clear in our heart together.
当全世界约好一起下雨,让我们约好一起在心里放晴。
10、Whatever is worth doing is worth doing well.任何值得做的,就把它做好。
11、Happiness is a way station between too much and too little.
幸福是太多和太少之间的一站。
12、Time goes by so fast, people go in and out of your life. You must never miss the opportunity to tell these people how much they mean to you.时间在流逝,生命中人来人往。不要错失机会,告诉他们在你生命中的意义。
13、I lied when I said I didn’t like you. I lied when I said I didn’t care. I lie every time I try to tell myself I will never fall for you.
我说不爱你,那是假话;我说不在乎,那是假话;我告诉自己对你再不会有感觉了,那也是假话。
14、One needs 3 things to be truly happy living in the world: some thing to do, some one to love, some thing to hope for.要得到真正的快乐,我们只需拥有三样东西:有想做的事,有值得爱的人,有美丽的梦。
15、No matter how bad your heart has been broken, the world doesn’t stop for your grief. The sun comes right back up the next day.
不管你有多痛苦,这个世界都不会为你停止转动。太阳依旧照样升起。
16、Accept what was and what is, and you’ll have more positive energy to pursue what will be.接受过去和现在的模样,才会有能量去追寻自己的未来。
17、Until you make peace with who you are, you’ll never be content with what you have.
除非你能和真实的自己和平相处,否则你永远不会对已拥有的东西感到满足。
18、If you would hit the mark, you must aim a little above it. Every arrow that flies feels the attraction of earth. -Henry Wadsworth Longfellow.要想射中靶,必须瞄准比靶略为高些,因为脱弦之箭都受到地心引力的影响。
19、If you wish to succeed, you should use persistence as your good friend, experience as your reference, prudence as your brother and hope as your sentry.
如果你希望成功,当以恒心为良友、以经验为参谋、以谨慎为兄弟、以希望为哨兵。
20、I’ll think of you every step of the way.
情书love范文第3篇
(一)称呼
称呼写在第一行,顶格,称呼后加冒号。
初恋阶段,男女双方已进入恋爱阶段,称呼上一般省去姓,只称呼恋人的名字,也可视情况使用恋人的爱称。但此时尚未进入热恋阶段,因不宜使用过分亲昵的称呼。如“亲爱的×××”等。
(二)正文
交流情况是初恋情书的重点,所以初恋情书的内容通常包括以下一些内容:
1.谈谈自己的近况
将自己近来的工作情况、学习体会、生活状况向对方“汇报”一下,同时还要谈自己的思想情况,畅谈自己对人生的理解和看法。这些内容可以密切双方关系,增加彼此的了解。
2.适当地向对方提一些自己的看法
了解的深一些,就可以通过情书指出对方的一些缺点和不足,以引起对方的注意。诸如对方生活懒散,不修边幅,吸烟太多等等。
恋人的关心是善意的,所以,当一方提出对方的不足时要及时回复对方,谈谈自己的想法。对恋人提出的不正当要求,要把握原则,可说服教育,不可迁就忍让。
一旦播下爱情的种子,就要精心培育、浇灌,使之盛开怒放。
3.适时地提出希望将关系确定下来
初恋是情感培养阶段,其目的在于双方最终可以走在一起,所以若对恋人的心思尚把握不透,可以在情书中询问和试探一下,以期得到对方明确的回答。当然若条件尚不成熟,也不可操之过急,更不可逼迫对方,把双方关系弄僵搞冷。
(三)结尾
结尾要写些美好的话语,语言也要亲切、热烈,但不可过分,通常可写上“让我们携手奔向美好的明天”等话。
(四)落款